The abbreviation for sexual abuse is SA. S stands for Sadism: it refers to the Marquis de Sade, a French nobleman in the Middle Ages who enjoyed inflicting abuse on women and wrote extensively about sexual deviant behavior. Scholars later named the active form of abuse, the enjoyment of inflicting harm on others, as Sadism. M stands for Masochism: it refers to Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, an Austrian novelist in the 19th century who was a passive victim of abuse and wrote about various perverted sexual activities. Therefore, the passive form of abuse was named Masochism.
Here are a few safer "SM" practices that you can try with your partner:
1. Beginner's choice with the highest safety level: Tie Me Up, Love Me
Props: stockings, ropes, toy handcuffs, sexy lingerie
Procedure: Tie your partner to the bed and tease them while they are unable to resist. Use your hands, breasts, smooth skin, and sensual lips to touch, caress, and kiss every desired part of their body. When they can't handle it anymore, assume the cowgirl position and use your waist movements to take control and enjoy the dominant role in the sexual experience (this is a basic plan suitable for women with a strong feminist nature).
2. Passion booster: Blindfold (use stockings or a handkerchief to cover your or your partner's eyes)
Intensity: This is a safe and highly stimulating sexual activity for most couples, especially when combined with tying hands and blindfolding. It will undoubtedly take your sexual relationship to a whole new level of excitement.
1: Safety precautions
No matter which stimulating sexual activity you try, safety is of utmost importance. Since stimulating sex is named for its "excitement," it naturally carries more risks than conventional lovemaking. Therefore, it is essential to make necessary safety preparations beforehand. If you or your partner gets injured or experiences any discomfort during the process, it will defeat the purpose of trying stimulating sex and may prevent you from experiencing the pleasure of sexual intimacy.
2: Psychological preparation
Generally speaking, stimulating sex is considered a "heavier" form of sexual activity. You may try it and feel nothing, or you might become addicted to it after just one try. However, the most crucial thing is to approach it with an open mindset and let go of preconceptions. Don't label this type of sexual behavior as strange or deviant in your mind. Embrace it with a sense of curiosity and explore this new sexual experience. At the same time, it is helpful to mentally visualize the entire process before engaging in it, so you don't feel unsure or awkward during the act, which could ruin the mood and sexual arousal. However, it is advisable not to use stimulating sex as a daily routine. After all, this kind of extreme sexual activity, once it becomes a habit, may unintentionally intensify your techniques and preferences, making conventional lovemaking seem dull and ordinary. As a result, when the next sexual low point occurs, you won't be able to find more intense means to stimulate your relationship.
Translation to English: The abbreviation for sexual abuse is SA. S stands for Sadism, which refers to the Marquis de Sade, a French nobleman in the Middle Ages who enjoyed inflicting abuse on women and wrote extensively about sexual deviant behavior. The active form of abuse, the enjoyment of inflicting harm on others, is named Sadism. M stands for Masochism, which refers to Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, an Austrian novelist in the 19th century who was a passive victim of abuse and wrote about various perverted sexual activities. The passive form of abuse is named Masochism.
Here are a few safer "SM" practices you can try with your partner:
1. Beginner's choice with the highest safety level: Tie Me Up, Love Me
Props: stockings, ropes, toy handcuffs, sexy lingerie
Procedure: Tie your partner to the bed and tease them while they are unable to resist. Use your hands, breasts, smooth skin, and sensual lips to touch, caress, and kiss every desired part of their body. When they can't handle it anymore, assume the cowgirl position and use your waist movements to take control and enjoy the dominant role in the sexual experience (this is a basic plan suitable for women with a strong feminist nature).
2. Passion booster: Blindfold (use stockings or a handkerchief to cover your or your partner's eyes)
Intensity: This is a safe and highly stimulating sexual activity for most couples, especially when combined with tying hands and blindfolding. It will undoubtedly take your sexual relationship to a whole new level of excitement.
1: Safety precautions
No matter which stimulating sexual activity you try, safety is of utmost importance. Since stimulating sex is named for its "excitement," it naturally carries more risks than conventional lovemaking. Therefore, it is essential tomake necessary safety preparations beforehand. If you or your partner gets injured or experiences any discomfort during the process, it will defeat the purpose of trying stimulating sex and may prevent you from experiencing the pleasure of sexual intimacy.
2: Psychological preparation
Generally speaking, stimulating sex is considered a "heavier" form of sexual activity. You may try it and feel nothing, or you might become addicted to it after just one try. However, the most crucial thing is to approach it with an open mindset and let go of preconceptions. Don't label this type of sexual behavior as strange or deviant in your mind. Embrace it with a sense of curiosity and explore this new sexual experience. At the same time, it is helpful to mentally visualize the entire process before engaging in it, so you don't feel unsure or awkward during the act, which could ruin the mood and sexual arousal. However, it is advisable not to use stimulating sex as a daily routine. After all, this kind of extreme sexual activity, once it becomes a habit, may unintentionally intensify your techniques and preferences, making conventional lovemaking seem dull and ordinary. As a result, when the next sexual low point occurs, you won't be able to find more intense means to stimulate your relationship.
